The Show Must Go On…Sometimes

This is for anyone who has made a complete fool of themselves for the sake of the ministry.  This has no spiritual meaning; I just thought it would be fun to have a good laugh together. The end of the day was drawing closer.  One more outreach and then we could all go back to the church.  I was [...]

Generational Blessings

Tears soaked the carefully typed pages as I read in silence.  My Grandfather spent months writing his memoir.  Moments and stories that were burned into his memory, were skillfully captured on paper.  A priceless gift to his children and grandchildren.  I was touched by the time he spent writing and recalling his years as a husband, father and pastor.   My [...]

To Love and Serve

I looked in the mirror...the reflection took me by surprise.  I smiled, I wasn't going to allow myself to get discouraged.  I knew this was what I was supposed to do, but I had never gone to church like this before.  Barry was already waiting by the door for me...I could hear his keys jingle as [...]

Shotgun For Sale

I was left home alone.  Let me just clarify something...I HATE being home alone.  So, in an effort to make me feel more secure, Barry showed me how to use a shotgun before he left for the week.  Okay, okay stop laughing!  It wasn't loaded and to be honest, I had no idea where the bullets were.  But, I figured [...]

When Dreams Evade You

I woke up startled...I had no idea what was going on.  I looked around trying to figure out where I was.  I could faintly make out the room, but I knew it was familiar.  I was still in my work uniform and my backpack was on the floor.  I let out a sigh of relief...I had [...]

The Mrs. and the Mistress

Barry and I sat across from each other, eyes locked and holding hands.  My throat was sore from trying to hold back my emotions.  I knew things were going to change, I could just sense it deep in my heart.  My mind wandered for a brief moment as I looked around the beautiful home we recently purchased.  I [...]

The Real Truth

I have wrestled with writing this blog for  a while now.   As a minister’s wife born into a family of minister’s I have searched for books, magazines, and blogs that could inspire me and encourage me in my role as a pastor’s wife.  But what I've found is that it's hard to be vulnerable, when your job is to lead.  My hope is that in [...]